Dynamic conversations embody a meeting of people with an attitude of authenticity or profound honesty. it can be two or more people, it can occur anywhere and at anytime. There are some loose ideas of conduct to help maintain its social authenticity such as:
All are KIND in intent or at least following a pathway towards KINDNESS if expressing loud and disruptive emotions and passions.
If for a moment we recognise LOVE in any interaction or expression we treat its manifestation with deep respect and honour.
All involved are potentially courageous and willing to explore the truths of their own real self, whatever that is.
All are willing to be motivated by authentic self expression or at the very least willing to be encouraged and challenged along this pathway.
The normal social and intellectual rules of conduct do not apply. No one is any better or more advanced or elevated than another whether of intellect or spirit. All who meet together are present for the advancement of and the betterment of self and others.The inevitability of this being the emergence of an active compassion that will compel us to do better work in the world and with others.
Transformation is the goal and change inevitable.
The process of Dynamic conversations naturally highlights any power inequalities, social airs or predjudices that may exist within the parties present. The process of DC if practiced in its purity and raw honesty will flush out any isolating and separative tendancies more and more, which will eventually lead to greater authenticity of SELF and more natural self expression for all. The opportunity for all is to be truley themselves without restriction.
Dynamic conversations are not about permission, it is more about respectful and loving annihalation of the objects of thought and feeling that are socially driven from a culturally propelled life. They allow us to lay bare our psyches, to reveal our personal vulnerabilities and to shed the many layers of personality like a snake sheds its skin.
The metaphore of the snake shedding its skin can illustrate the power of a truely dynamic conversation. To the snake the shedding of its skin is an apparent life changing event. Wholeness returning once the process is over. The experience is profound, possibly painful, dramatic and potentially frightening to both the participant and to those who onlook. The onlooker may recoil at the rawness of its shedding and lack of social grace in vulnerability. The final moment of release being like a death or at least a complete end to one way of life and the beginning of another. Our conversations and relations with one an other have this same potential.
When a belief we hold or value we cherish, is put through the filter of authenticity and potentially shed like the snakes skin it remains for a time in our memories and habits. We often feel the rawness of our new sense of identity. It can be raw of body, raw in our intent, and birth new sensitivities and vulnerabilities which are initially uncomfortable. Eventually we adapt and are comforted by our old friends, the residing beliefs and values that remain intact, and a new balance of personality once again prevails within us.
To give of ourselves without restriction to a dynamic conversation experience allows for the natural order of life to flow through us and with us in social context. We allow for the birth, death and renewal of an idea, belief and value to emmerge and flourish in conversations, actions and movements, we give respect to this journey and the potentials it offers all of us.
Our inner natural resonace with the activity of life if left to its own accord will compell us to grow as individuals, to bring out the best in us or possibly air the worst in us so we can better live out the best of us. We can facilitate without prescribed effort the release of ourselves and others from old cultural and conditioned motivations, and in the authenticity of unplanned moments, free ourselves to see more clearly who we really are and to bear witness to the vast potential of being we all possess. We can affect one another for the good and betterment of all. We can emerge into the vast & immeasurable moments of a life filled with unique outcomes and vast potentials.